What is a mother?

I spent this past weekend reflecting quite a bit on motherhood and what it means to be a mother. As a single, you can imagine that myself and others in my same life stage, might feel a little left out on this celebratory day. However, as I sat in church this past Sunday and listened to the pastor speak of the characteristics of a mother, I very quickly realized that God has given me the same challenge. Motherhood is not only a profound responsibility, but a choice. And it's not just for married people.

I have the opportunity every day to love on others, share my nurturing nature, provide protection when necessary, exercise authority over those who may need it, and set a good example. I am given the joy of loving on babies in my church nursery, mentoring young ladies in the youth group and helping to train them up in the way they should go. I have the privilege of babysitting for friends and loving on their little ones. The opportunities are endless if I am simply open to them.

My own mother has set such a remarkable example for me and reminds me often of the Proverbs 31 woman. She has not only been a mother to me, but to all those around me. This past weekend we were able to celebrate her and what a blessing she has been to our entire family.

We also celebrated my brother's birthday this past weekend (he just happened to be born on Mother's Day 34 years ago)! Hard to believe I'm related to such an old man! We spent the afternoon out at my parents new house eating hot dogs, watching the kids play, and visiting. It was a great time with family and just reminded me once again of how much I am blessed.